https://justplayinghouse.com/motherhood/loss/grieving-process Lifestyle Blog: Motherhood, Child Loss, Grief, and Thriving After Loss Fri, 03 Sep 2021 20:03:31 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.4.8 https://justplayinghouse.com/motherhood/loss/grieving-process#comment-4029984 Fri, 03 Sep 2021 20:03:31 +0000 http://justplayinghouse.com/?p=2117#comment-4029984 began 12 years ago. We were on our yearly family trip to Jamaica. My husband and two adult children , Carly 27 and Callen now 35. My brother built a family cottage in the south west side of the island. A place we considered our second home. We were part of the community in the small fishing village. Carly was 10 and Callen was 7 when we first started taking them to see this beautiful parish. If was a great learning experience for both my children. They met so many friends and grew with them throughout the years. Than it happened the phone call every parent prays never to get. The hospital calling telling us to come to the emergency our daughter Carly was hurt. There we were frozen and shaking from fear that our beautiful child was seriously injured that's all they would tell us. Suddenly feeling so lost at 2am in the morning panicking trying to get a ride. After getting ahold of a friend to take me, my husband Brian, my son Callen and my mom we drove 40 minutes to the town where my daughter was brought. Crying all the way Please God don't let my Carly die with the rest of my family in the back seat. They were all crying and I could hear their pleading hoping Carly was not seriously injured. When we reached the hospital panicking to see if Carly was conscious. The nurses met us at the entrance door and said your daughter didn't make it. As soon as I heard those words I fainted and fell to the floor. All I can remember is waking up hooked up to a IV in my arm. And hearing my family crying and calling Carly. I went into to shock still not able to see my daughter. I don't have to say anymore as every parent that has lost children already know the unbearable pain Carly was in a tragic car accident with 4 other friends in the car. My beautiful daughter Carly was the only one who passed away that night. April 3rd, 2009- Forever 27 Carly only had 4 months to wait until her wedding day to her fiance of 11 years together. Carly's mom, Debbie Bragnalo ( In Memory of Carly Marie Lily Bragnalo I wrote a book it was published in 2018 called The White Butterfly's Journey]]> Hi my name is Debbie and I am an angel mom too. My unbearable pain 💔 began 12 years ago. We were on our yearly family trip to Jamaica. My husband and two adult children , Carly 27 and Callen now 35. My brother built a family cottage in the south west side of the island. A place we considered our second home. We were part of the community in the small fishing village. Carly was 10 and Callen was 7 when we first started taking them to see this beautiful parish. If was a great learning experience for both my children. They met so many friends and grew with them throughout the years. Than it happened the phone call every parent prays never to get. The hospital calling telling us to come to the emergency our daughter Carly was hurt. There we were frozen and shaking from fear that our beautiful child was seriously injured 💔 that’s all they would tell us. Suddenly feeling so lost at 2am in the morning panicking trying to get a ride. After getting ahold of a friend to take me, my husband Brian, my son Callen and my mom we drove 40 minutes to the town where my daughter was brought. Crying all the way 😢 Please God don’t let my Carly die with the rest of my family in the back seat. 💔 They were all crying and I could hear their pleading hoping Carly was not seriously injured. When we reached the hospital panicking to see if Carly was conscious. The nurses met us at the entrance door and said your daughter didn’t make it. As soon as I heard those words I fainted and fell to the floor. All I can remember is waking up hooked up to a IV in my arm. And hearing my family crying and calling Carly. I went into to shock still not able to see my daughter. I don’t have to say anymore as every parent that has lost children already know the unbearable pain 💔 Carly was in a tragic car accident with 4 other friends in the car. My beautiful daughter Carly was the only one who passed away that night. 😢 April 3rd, 2009- Forever 27 Carly only had 4 months to wait until her wedding day to her fiance of 11 years together. Carly’s mom, Debbie Bragnalo ( In Memory of Carly Marie Lily Bragnalo 💖 I wrote a book it was published in 2018 called The White Butterfly’s Journey

]]> https://justplayinghouse.com/motherhood/loss/grieving-process#comment-3012769 Wed, 12 Dec 2018 19:59:46 +0000 http://justplayinghouse.com/?p=2117#comment-3012769 How true..every word
My son was 7..my daughter 14..both were killed almost a yr ago..

]]> https://justplayinghouse.com/motherhood/loss/grieving-process#comment-2059 Mon, 15 Feb 2016 04:24:32 +0000 http://justplayinghouse.com/?p=2117#comment-2059 Your words couldn’t be farther from the truth. I can only relate to the void left behind after my father’s death. The pain is real and endless. Its just a matter of learning to live with it. Wish you the best and Always keep you and your family in my prayers.

]]> https://justplayinghouse.com/motherhood/loss/grieving-process#comment-2051 Sat, 13 Feb 2016 21:42:06 +0000 http://justplayinghouse.com/?p=2117#comment-2051 David what a great explanation of how it is and it is so true I love you guys and I do know your pain

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