Comments on: Communication After Death – My Signs from Cameron

By: Stacy Wambui

Stacy Wambui — Tue, 27 Jul 2021 18:55:06 +0000

Hi Emily,

Thanks for sharing, I lost my 21 year old son about 4 months ago through an accident and the pain is still so raw, I still take one day at a time, sometimes I am not even able to look at his photos, the pain of loosing a child is like no other.

The days am sad or the days I cry a lot I see him in my dreams, though he is always avoiding looking at me , I always see him walk away or avoid facing me, I presume he is telling me not to be sad because he is in a better place. Times my brain refuses to register his death, (Denial), at times I accept, sometimes it just refuses, it is a journey (a roller coaster) and hope and pray God will see me through.

On Signs, my Dad died a year ago on a 12th and was buried on a 17th which is similar to my son, he died on a 12th and was buried on a 17th I need to keen to check on this signs.

Thanks

By: Honore Ikram

Honore Ikram — Tue, 08 Dec 2020 19:35:05 +0000

In reply to Emily Graham. Hello, Mrs. Graham. I know that this is late but as a 12 year old boy who is about to turn 13, I am sorry for your loss. I hope that you had many times of happiness with him and hope that you recovered from it. Your son would've been my age if that sickness never happened.. I hope that you stay way and hope that Cameron is riding the last train home in Heaven. I can tell that he is waiting for you to come.

By: Trish

Trish — Wed, 14 Oct 2020 01:21:49 +0000

Emily, your story has touched me so deeply.

We lost my dad in 2012. He always had a thing for the number 12 as his mom was born on Dec. 12, 1912 at 12:12.

I see that number all the time and know he is close by just as your sweet Cameron is close to you.

Sending you the biggest tightest hug.

Trish

By: Melanie Hirst

Melanie Hirst — Sat, 02 Nov 2019 18:40:21 +0000

Hi Emily just sat here reading your story in tears as your story is almost identical to our boys who was 13 we recently lost him still not knowing why he isn’t with us anymore Christmas isn’t far away we have other children I don’t know how were going to get through it without him it was his favourite time of year thank you for sharing your story

By: Gemma

Gemma — Fri, 02 Aug 2019 22:34:50 +0000

Hi Emily, I believe also that there is some kind of life after death. We lost our 3rd child at 23wks 6days gestation had I not gone into labour for another 12 hrs they could have given me medication to slow or stop labour and given steroids to develop her lungs so she could breath when she was born. She was instead born on my birthday and classed as a miscarriage not still birth or even a baby. She was nearly 2lb in weight and the hospital did nothing to save her. I watched her little heart beat fade while they assured me it was just a reflex and covered her chest. I decided to not take her body home as I felt she had already gone and thought it would be hard for my 2 year old and 4 year old to understand. I found it hard after and could think of a million things I should of said to the doctor’s while I was in slow labour and felt guilty for leaving her body at the hospital. It felt to me I had abandoned her by leaving her at the hospital.
I fell pregnant a fourth time and the pregnancy went well and as I had had my 1st and 2nd children at home decided this was the right option. The day came but this time the baby was not in the right position and wouldn’t move, my midwife wasn’t taking any chances although he was not stressed or in danger, much to my dread she announced we were going into hospital. I was terrified as the only experience I had had was lossing a baby in there but I also knew I needed to trust her so we went into hospital as a emergency. As they wheeled the bed into a room at the hospital I glanced at the door and realized that it was the same room my little poppy had been born in just less than a year earlier. I panicked a little but then I felt like she was with me again and wanted to help. Just a few minutes later my little boy moved and was born health into that same room. I went home with him that same night . I didn’t just take one baby home that night the baby I had lost Poppy came home too. I could feel her presence as we walk out of the hospital and when we arrived home she was there. I haven’t thought about the hospital and her been left there since.
So I know exactly what you mean and although many may say it’s in my head, my husband has said the same thing without me saying a word. The next day after we arrived home he turned to me and said “we brought them both home” I was shocked as I hadn’t wanted to mention Poppy as i didn’t want to dampen the moment. Not a day goes by when I don’t miss her although it seems odd as I never got to know her. I can not imagine what you must have gone through and still do, but I know the signs you talk of are real and your little angel will watch over his family until you are all together again.

By: Sandy

Sandy — Sun, 10 Feb 2019 21:24:29 +0000

Hi Emily! I lost my 29 year old daughter four years ago. She was a wonderfully weird young lady who claimed 13 was her lucky number. She sends me 13’s all the time now, especially when there’s something going on that she thinks is really important! Thank you for validating my thoughts on signs sent from our loved ones who have passed! God Bless!

By: Mary Brownell

Mary Brownell — Sun, 04 Nov 2018 03:43:20 +0000

Dear Emily and the other parents who have lost their precious children, there are no words that I can offer that bring the comfort that you or any parent in your situation needs. I can only say how touch and sad I felt to read your stories. Our children are so precious to us; losing them is truly unimaginable. I can only imagine the depth of your sorrow. My heart goes out to all of you.

By: diana

diana — Thu, 26 Jul 2018 14:00:36 +0000

Your story made me cry. I’m so, so sorry that it happened to you, to him. I wish i could hug you. And yes, I believe in signs after death.

By: Emily Graham

Emily Graham — Mon, 02 Jul 2018 00:32:37 +0000

In reply to Stephanie Drueke.

I know Rex is still around you. I’ve heard grief can sometimes block our ability to see the signs. My husband was a huge skeptic! He has since started to come around. I’ve convinced him to “play a game” with our son. Ask for a specific sign (something obscure, random). Don’t tell anyone what it is. Just watch for it. He will send it! It may take time, so be patient. This is how my husband now gets his signs. The one thing that helped me was visiting a medium. She told me about signs I had seen that I hadn’t even told anyone about… it helped me tune in and validated what I was seeing. Hope this helps. Sending lots of love your way!

By: Stephanie Drueke

Stephanie Drueke — Tue, 19 Jun 2018 17:52:45 +0000

Hi Emily,
Very touched by your blog and the signs you have received. I lost my 4 year old Rex this last March in a tragic accident at our truck shop in which my husband was unfortunately behind the wheel and my 5 year old witnessed. I was 20 weeks along at the time of the accident and we are patiently awaiting baby girls arrival. Thank you for your strength to tell us your story. I search every night for stories like yours and they give me hope that I can get through this, someway somehow. I often wonder why we as mothers have to endure such pain and heartache. I hope and pray for signs daily, haven’t had anything definitive but I am hopeful that someday I will. I tell myself that that he’s just having too much fun in heaven to send me anything. Thank you again.