How To Find A Medium Or Psychic Medium

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I have had so many people ask me how to find a medium. They have either heard me talk about my experience or read my blog post about using medium readings to heal grief. Their first question is always, “How did you find a medium?” Most people have thought about it, but they have no idea where to start.

I like to start by explaining that a psychic and a medium are two different things. A psychic has the ability to connect with you and talk about your past, present, and future. A medium has the ability to connect to people that have crossed over and are coming forward to connect with you. Essentially, they connect with you through the medium.

Let me also say not all mediums are created equal. It takes time and practice to hone their skills. Some can hear names, while others only see first initials. A good medium will always be able to describe the personality of the person you are connecting to. Often times they will say exact statements used by that person when they were here. A legitimate medium should be able to talk about things only you would know. Do your homework to ensure you choose a medium that is reputable.

So where do you start?

We started with Google quite frankly. We put together a list of local mediums. Then we started to research them. Many offer reviews on their website. We were still very skeptical so we dug into the internet to see what else we could find. My husband is like Sherlock Holmes. He left no rock unturned. In our search we learned a few things.

There are organizations that certify psychics and mediums. These organizations are a great place to find a medium! What I have learned is there are only 30 mediums certified through the Forever Family Foundation. Apparently thousands apply. Their process is so rigorous very few make it through.

Do you know anyone that has gone to a medium? Those are the best recommendations you can get, assuming you trust what they have to say. Then my last piece of advice when choosing a medium is to follow your gut. I believe the universe (or whatever you believe in) will lead you to the person you are meant to find. Trust it.

When we selected someone, we jumped through hoops to make sure we remained anonymous. This was mostly to provide my husband validation that there was no way she could know anything about us ahead of time. He created a fake email address not tied to our names and used it to communicate with her and schedule the appointment. We paid in cash so we didn’t have to provide a credit card. She only had his first name. During the medium reading we did not share any personal information about ourselves or who we wanted to connect with. She led the entire reading and only asked us to validate things after she said them. A good medium will also want to validate the information they are giving you makes sense to you.

I have had a few experiences with mediums. Each validated my belief in their own unique way. I recommend it to anyone that is open to it. Have you had any experiences with psychics or mediums?

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14 Comments on “How To Find A Medium Or Psychic Medium”

    1. I hate that term “move on”. The whole idea of moving on without our loved one is just too much. I prefer to think of it as moving forward…finding a way to move forward with them, just in a different way. It looks different for everyone. But, you’re already doing it. One foot in front of the other every day. Keep grieving any way you want or need to…don’t feel pressured to be a certain way in a certain time…just keep going. Hugs!

  1. I like that you explain how mediums can have different levels of psychic skills and they require time and practice to hone their skills. I also like your advice to research online and talk to people you know in order to get their advice. Once you’ve researched the different options and created a list of psychic mediums that you feel are qualified, it would probably be a good idea to meet with them so that you can find one who you trust and feel comfortable with.

  2. I lost my wife of 30+ years and the center of my universe December 2017. I did my grief in one day and then went back to living. She had cancer and we knew the end was near, and e had spent a lot of time studying spiritual things and had picked up the thing that gave me the ability to recover quickly. It’s very simply “IT IS WHAT IT IS” – if you can truly GET that concept then it will give you a whole new lease on life. List simply is what it is and your choice about it is that you can accept it or not. Acceptance means peace with what is, rejection means being miserable. But you do get to choose – all that grief does nothing but make you feel miserable and it doesn’t being the person back or closer. In fact they are home again and want you to be happy while you are still here. So accept what is and simply get on with living the life you still have until it’s your turn to cross over. It Is What It Is and nothing you do, feel or say will make it be something else.
    Just a thought for anyone it may help, it helped me.

  3. I read the page. “How to find a psychic or medium” doesn’t tell you or give any resource on how to find a psychic or a medium. Am I missing something.?

    1. Forever Family Foundation was my recommendation as a place to start. There are groups that certify mediums based on validating things they bring through. Otherwise, ask for referrals and read recommendations. During a reading, never give them information on who you want to connect to or what your story is. A good, honest medium will not want that information. They will want you to validate things they say as being correct or not.

  4. I don’t how to feel anymore. I’m just numb inside and out. I’ve lost so many people in my life and a lot of things happen to me that i regret doing. I need serious help. I feel so dumb and stupid.


    1. A good place to start is Forever Family Foundation. They have a list of mediums that have passed their very rigorous testing. I’ve used a few of them on that list. Otherwise, look for referrals from people you trust and do your homework to look for reviews.

  6. I thought it was interesting when you mentioned that a good way to find a medium is to get recommendations from friends who have visited one. I have never visited a psychic before and I think that it would be a unique experience. These tips will be very helpful while I look for a medium to go to.

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