I love a message from heaven story. This is one I have not really shared. It’s one of my “this is going to sound crazy, but” stories. I typically reserve them for people closest to me. Those that won’t think I’ve completely lost my marbles. However, I believe they are important to share. Signs are everywhere! This story begins in February 2016. … Read More
The Importance Of Remembering Our Loved Ones – Cameron’s Reindeer Drive
Remembering our loved ones is the single most important goal. Nothing makes our heart happier than to have those around us help. Reindeer have always had a special place in our house. So when friends of mine decided to do something in memory of Cameron, a reindeer drive just made sense. I believe angels walk among us. These are the … Read More
Closure Doesn’t Exist In Grief
Grief requires closure to move forward. What if closure doesn’t exist? What a novel concept? One I hadn’t even considered until I watched Nancy Berns’ TED Talk titled, “Beyond Closure”. I have said it before and I will say it again. I love TED Talks. Inspiration delivered in 20 minutes or less that changes your entire perception on life. Why should … Read More
7 Simple Ways To Invest In Your Family And Reap Big Rewards
Invest in your family, it is the best thing you can do and it will always pay tenfold. This is advice I received as I left the corporate world and became a stay-at-home mom. While family time has always been a priority, it wasn’t until after my son died that I really understood the value. Time is precious. It is a … Read More
21 Things I Learned In Our First Year Of Loss
We have officially survived our first year of loss. I’m not really sure how. It doesn’t seem possible to be standing where we are today. I still wish I would wake up and have it all be a nightmare. Through this journey we have received a lot of advice. Nothing really prepares you. You simply learn to find comfort in … Read More
New Years Resolutions – 2017 Get Healthy Challenge
New Years is just around the corner. I am not a “let’s make a resolution” kind of gal. History is proof that it never works out so the effort is pointless. This voice inside my head is causing me to pause and reconsider. I need 2017 to be different. It has been such a long time since I have looked … Read More
Why I Share Our Story – My Blogging Mission
People often ask why I share our story. Why I blog. Over the last year that reason has become crystal clear. My mission is defined. Though there are times I question it. Is it too sad? Will people think all I do is grieve? Will people still want to read? My mission is to openly share as much of my … Read More
My Grief Amnesia – It’s Not You, It’s Me.
Grief amnesia. I’m not even sure if it’s a thing. However, it completely matches my reality. This has been a strange week. We are on the cusp of one year. The anticipation of dealing with those moments has me a bit overwhelmed. My mind is mixed between reliving every moment of last year combined with what feels like the first realization … Read More
How To Be In The Moment In The Age Of Technology
Be in the moment. A goal for most parents. Seemingly unattainable at times, but a goal nonetheless. This phrase is constantly being offered up as advice. Remove all distractions and slow down. Live your life in the present moment. Take it all in. As a society we are obsessed with cell phones and technology. Regardless of where we are, our … Read More
Get A Personalized Video or Call From Santa!
Every year our kids receive a personalized Santa video. This has been a long time Christmas tradition for us. Kind of a way to bring a little more Santa magic into the house. The Portable North Pole offers a variety of videos, scripts, and options to personalize your Santa interaction. This is especially important if you have more than one child. … Read More