Healing Grief Through Medium Readings

I have always believed in mediums. People with the ability to talk to the dead. Call me crazy if you like. Before Cameron died last December, I never had a reason to test those beliefs. It’s all I’ve done these last 9 months…test. There is not a person in this world that can shake my belief now!

Let me start by saying, I am not a grieving mother grasping at straws. The word “sucker” is not stamped across my forehead. We did our research and read reviews to select someone we could trust. We have been overly cautious to rule out any sort of pre-knowledge (mostly for my husband’s sake – he leans more toward the non-believer side). Creating a fake email address not tied to us to communicate and book the appointment. Providing only our first name. Paying cash at the actual appointment. There have been 3 different readings with 3 different mediums, each one just as amazing as the last.

Before our first reading, I was so nervous! Would he come through? What would happen? While I’ve always believed, there was a part of me that questioned if I had believed in the wrong thing. What then?

Just 10 minutes into our first reading, I had zero doubts! As things were shared, it was all done in his words and personality. I can’t even tell you how that is possible. Yet, exact phrases came through. Things he had said. Talking about things just as he would have. Incredible!

The first thing Cameron told us was he found our dog Max. They were together. When Cameron was young and we talked about death, he always told me that would be the first thing he would do…find Max. As he described how he died, the accuracy blew me away! She talked about it feeling like it was toxic, an allergy and a poisoning all at the same time. It was! Then immediately mentioned the impact to his liver (it had shut down by the end of the night). The level of confusion from everyone and that it just came on and happened so quickly.

Some of the details I had never shared publicly, even in my original blog post. There was no way anyone could have known them unless they were standing in the room with us. He went so far as to tell her he hated what we did to his hair! The hospital shaved it off to give it to us along with his hand prints. I immediately apologized to him (and laughed). He always took his haircuts very seriously! It was no surprise he would hate what they did.

He started telling her about all of the signs he was leaving. It blew my mind! There was zero prompting from us. No questions asked. No leading of “did he”. She just started telling us. She asked about an experience with a bedside lamp. Melia had seen his lamp go on/off/on/off shortly after he died. She asked about electronics disturbances. His train whistle went off in the car. She asked me if I had been seeing a pattern of numbers over and over. I had. The number 12.


He knew I had been standing in his closet looking at his shoes. He told her about my drive to the airport on my way to Las Vegas when the AC went out on the car. That it was so hot and I was driving with no AC that day. He commented on the notes we attached to the balloons that we released just for him at his memorial. He also knew about the necklace I was getting with his handwriting on it.

The moment that started to really turn my husband? I was asked who drove a BMW. I said I didn’t know anyone that drove a BMW. They were absolutely certain it was a BMW, light blue, and they kept saying they wanted to assign it to my Dad. My response was the same. I knew my Dad to drive a Cadillac, but that was the closest thing to a BMW. The next day, my Dad called to ask if he could pick Melia up in his BMW. When I asked the color? Light blue. How could the medium know that if I didn’t even know my Dad owned a BMW?


Then there were the personal messages he shared. Things that have helped to guide the spiritual journey I’ve been on since the day he left. Most importantly that he is at peace. He is happy where he is! He feels so lucky to have had the life he did. He just wants everyone to know how much he loves them. They love that they are remembered!

Cameron reinforced the message that he is still here. He referenced things in his life that he didn’t know as a 7-year old. For instance, he told me how much he loves his birth story. That it makes him laugh at how sudden it all was. That it was supposed to happen almost 2-weeks later than it did. Plus, he peed directly into the air over the doctor and she screamed.

These medium readings have been the single most healing things I have done. I highly recommend them to others in my shoes. Literally I could talk about my experiences for days (this post barely scratches the surface). There is this closeness I feel to Cameron. A renewed sense of bonding and communication. Proof that he hasn’t left. He has simply transitioned to the other side.

Have you had any experiences with mediums?


Additional Message From Heaven Posts:

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  3. Communication After Death – My Signs From Cameron
  4. How Minnie Mouse Delivered A Messages From Heaven
  5. Pennies From Heaven – It’s Not Just A Story

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13 Comments on “Healing Grief Through Medium Readings”

  1. Emily, this may be one of the most incredible things I’ve ever read! I would love to get their names from you if you don’t mind, in efforts to contact my dad. I think what you guys are doing together is great!!!

    1. His signs are seriously what keep me going! It’s amazing how they show up at just the right moment.

  2. Hi Emily
    I lost my son nearly 18 years ago still feels like yesterday as I’m writhing this I can feel the tears welling up inside me I miss him everyday always will .
    I live in the UK could you give me any help in finding a medium here it would mean so much to be able to make some sort of contact with my son his death was sudden and unexplained I just want him to know I love him always .

    1. Hi Evey – I am sure you have times it feels like it happened yesterday and others it feels like 100 years ago. I love to hear you are considering a medium. For me, it has been the most helpful, amazing thing! I’m not sure of where to point you for the UK. Forever Family Foundation is here in the States. Though, I am not sure if they have anyone in the UK. Maybe start there or reach out to them to see if they can point you in a direction? Many times they are well connected and may know of another organization where you are. If not, I am a firm believer to follow your gut. Do some research. If you’re part of a Facebook group for grief or bereaved parents, see if anyone there has a recommendation. Check out reviews online and just trust your gut. It sounds strange, but I believe you will be matched with the person you are supposed to be matched with to do the reading! Good luck. I hope you have a strong reading. I’d love to hear how it goes for you. Hugs! Emily

  3. I’m so sorry for your loss. There is no worse feeling than losing your child. Our baby just passed away on March 17th, 5 days shy of turning 3 months old. He has an older brother who is 11 1/2 months older than him. They already had such a precious bond at such a young age. Several days after he passed away my husband and I were in the car talking. We both had this feeling that Malik would be back, and that maybe he would come back as our next child. We never fully believed in reincarnation, so I got upset while we were talking about it because I felt like maybe it was wishful thinking. The next day my mom called me. She owns a massage business. Her boyfriend who is a massage therapist had a client come in who asked how he was doing. He said not that good because his girlfriends grandson just passed away. He knows that she is a psychic medium but he is very professional so he left it at that. While he was working on her she said that she was connecting with our son and could see his wings. He wants us to know that he is okay, and he had to leave the earth so that would could emerge into who we were meant to be, and that he will be back. This blew my mind. I had to find out if she was legitimate. I had a sit down reading with this lovely woman, and she is the real deal. Malik was adamant about letting me know that he will be back and that he is sorry. I’ve also been His mother in a past life in the 1800s, I’m not surprised. This woman knew things that she wouldn’t be able to know unless she was truly gifted. She said he will be coming back soon, within the next few months. My mom had a reading with a popular psychic medium from India via Skype. She has a friend who swore by this woman. My mom asked about my son, she confidently said he is coming back as my next baby. It’s so interesting, because even though he passed so young, he is an ancient soul. He always gives me signs of his presence and in the coolest ways. I love and miss him more than anything and I love that he tried so hard to communicate with me that he went through a psychic that came in my mom’s clinic. I really enjoyed reading your posts. Your son is a beautiful soul and so are you. Wish I could give you a big hug. Much love to you

    1. Love hearing other’s experiences with medium readings! For me, this was the single most healing thing I have done (I’ve had 4 readings so far). And I’m a believer! Hugs Mama!

  4. I had my own personal medium, she was my best friend, but passed away 4 years after my son did. I have found other mediums in my area that are wonderful. I agree with you Emily, mediums are how I survive, they are a true blessing!

  5. Hallo Emily,I m sorry about what happened to your son.. I can’t imagine how hard it is loosing your own kid.. I have lost my mother,I never tried to accept life after death or what mediums can do.. reading your post makes me what to believe in it.. I don’t know what to say I feel very strange all I want,please,contact me I have some questions I want to ask.. thanks for your time I will be waiting your answer thank you!

  6. I stumbled upon your blog accidently, since losing my daughter in October, I often search LOSING A CHILD. I am intrigued by your experience with mediums. I too have wanted to go – but have not yet. I had also thought of how I could book my appointment without giving any information about me, in order to know that the medium couldn’t do any prior research. I know my daughter is “out there” – I can feel her. I can hear her – we have telepathic conversations. I know that probably sounds crazy. I’m not crazy.
    One thing I have learned is that it is my personal responsibility to live this life the best I can, without my daughter. I have another child, I have 2 grandsons now. I will forever miss my girl, my best and brightest friend, but I will allow joy to come into my life and I will move forward. I am moving forward. My child died as a result of an overdose, which brings along a whole set of its’ own burdens and grief. In any event, I am glad I stumbled upon your blog, I am more inclined to pursue the medium reading after reading of your experiences. Thanks so much for sharing. May peace be with you.

  7. I want to send my condolences to you and your family, even though I know there are no words. We also had an unbelievable experience with a medium and she knew things only we did. I was so grief stricken that my loved one could not reach out to me as he was too weak and saddened by my sorrow. He was able to cross over to our daughter and shared things with her. After the session, we cried all night as we miss him so much. I wanted to reach out to her again however it won’t bring him back to us and the emotional aspect is too much to bear. The important thing is I know he is watching over us and I have tried my best to work through my grief so he wont worry about me and Rest In Peace. Thank you for sharing your story.

  8. I just joined your Facebook group tonight and found myself on your blog. I have been bawling all night. I lost my 7 year old son to Neuroblastoma last July. Your story of his death broke me. As a mom of child loss, knowing that pain of holding your child as they die, cannot be described with words. My heart tore apart. Although we knew my son would pass, the pain is still crippling. About a month after losing JT, a friend of mine contacted me saying her moms friend is a medium and said JT had contacted her. So we connected. Free of charge, she didn’t even know my sons story. It was the most remarkable experience. I’m a believer of mediums and of Christ so I absolutely believe in the afterlife. But of course when I visited I was skeptic. I didn’t want my feelings hurt after all. But like you said, she didn’t even ask questions, she just dove right in. I was bawling. I felt so connected with JT, like he never even left. It gave me such hope and peace. Knowing he is with us always and is SO happy in heaven. I couldn’t ask for more. I sometimes feel like I’m addicted to mediums. Since it’s a way I can feel connected to him. I wish I could talk to him all the time. He leaves me pennies everywhere. And my ear rings as certain times. Gosh I miss my boy. Thank you for sharing your story. It’s easy to talk about our children, but so hard to talk about death and our experience with it. God bless you in your grief journey ❤️ Ashley

  9. I recently lost my 32 year old son. He was a beautiful soul and my best friend. Can you please share this mediums contact details.
    Thank you

  10. I Graduated in 2010 with BA honors in Fine Art, but since I Graduated from University my Mother died in 2009 and life has been difficult coping with unemployment, homelessness, loneliness for 10 years in England and now we have this pandemic .

    There is not much I can say, but I keep asking my self can life get any worse

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